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To be negative, to worry you and to live the “what if” and “should have” philosophies is much more exhausting.
But thinking positive is not so easy. It has a lot to do with analyzing yourself.
In order to be able to live up to a positive attitude, one must also know one’s own weaknesses and stand by them. A fact that requires a lot of overcoming and self-confidence. Nevertheless, every human being can do it, and so can you.
It is important to work on it step by step and not to give up. Positive thinking means living in the present, and will not only lighten your life, but also the mood of the people around you.
Attitude is everything
Attitude is the lens through which you look at reality. It shapes your life. Look at your own attitude very accurately and honestly. Are you pessimistic? Do you veil everything in fear or indifference? Is your everyday life characterized by envy, ridicule, blasphemy and contempt? Then you clearly have the wrong attitude towards life! As Plato once said, “envy is aimed at shrinking others in the hope of upgrading themselves.”
How will your life change if you change your attitude?
Treat people with kindness and respect
Every single person you meet should be valued and treated with courtesy. You have to realize that they all have feelings and their own view of life. This may differ from yours but is just as valid. Respect for other people also has a positive effect on your own self-esteem.
Whether you look down on people who have no specific strengths, or look up to people who have more experience, or accomplished more than you. Constantly comparing yourself with others shifts your focus to the others rather than what you can what you want and what you are good at. Also, avoid comparing your friends, children, etc. with others. If we want to improve something, we have to begin inside the person and focus only on the person. What others do or do not do only affects the others!
Take responsibility for your work, your actions and your life
Do not shirk responsibility and do not make excuses. But on the contrary. Take responsibility, make a mistake, fix it and learn from it. Do not handle a mistake and do not stick to the past. Live today, in the here and now.